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Asking Eric: Cheapskate husband saps all the joy out of eating out
Asking Eric: Cheapskate husband saps all the joy out of eating out
Asking Eric: Cheapskate husband saps all the joy out of eating out

Published on: 12/08/2025

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For my last birthday, we went to a bistro and shared a sandwich, while he chose a pricey new Thai restaurant for his. Getty Images

Dear Eric: my husband, 67, of 15 years has many sterling qualities. The issue? He is cheap! He’ll graciously allow me to treat him to expensive meals and say, “thank you,” while overtipping the cute young server, but when he’s anxiously asking if I am “sure” about paying, he somehow never thinks to offer to pay for his own meal!

News Source : https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2025/12/asking-eric-cheapskate-husband-saps-all-the-joy-out-of-eating-out.html

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