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Dear Abby: I tried to be flexible, but long-term house guest shattered my peace. This can’t happen again
Dear Abby: I tried to be flexible, but long-term house guest shattered my peace. This can’t happen again
Dear Abby: I tried to be flexible, but long-term house guest shattered my peace. This can’t happen again

Published on: 04/30/2026

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Shared spaces were left messy, personal belongings spread throughout the house, decor rearranged and boundaries ignored. Getty Images

DEAR ABBY: My partner recently allowed a friend to stay in our home without telling me in advance. My partner knows unannounced guests deeply affect my mental well-being and sense of safety. We had agreed I would be given at least two weeks’ notice for any visitors. That did not happen because the guest was going through a difficult time.

News Source : https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2026/04/dear-abby-i-tried-to-be-flexible-but-long-term-house-guest-shattered-my-peace-this-cant-happen-again.html

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