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Dear Annie: I bonded with my husband's ex and it's made all the difference in our lives
Dear Annie: I bonded with my husband's ex and it's made all the difference in our lives
Dear Annie: I bonded with my husband's ex and it's made all the difference in our lives

Published on: 10/23/2026

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Annie Lane writes the Dear Annie advice column.

This column originally ran in 2017.

News Source : https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2026/10/dear-annie-i-bonded-with-my-husbands-ex-and-its-made-all-the-difference-in-our-lives.html

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