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Dear Annie: Readers share tips on helping relatives who feel isolated
Dear Annie: Readers share tips on helping relatives who feel isolated
Dear Annie: Readers share tips on helping relatives who feel isolated

Published on: 10/05/2026

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Annie Lane writes the Dear Annie advice column.

Dear Readers: After my column in response to “Worried Daughter,” who was concerned that her widowed mother was becoming increasingly isolated and dependent two years after her husband’s death, readers wrote with thoughtful suggestions. Thank you to all, but especially to two readers for sharing your personal and professional experiences with the same situation.

News Source : https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2026/10/dear-annie-readers-share-tips-on-helping-relatives-who-feel-isolated.html

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